On Being A Role Model

It would probably be a nice thing if we all had good role models to emulate. It is commonly held that a role model is a "person who serves as an example, whose behaviour is emulated by others" and it is difficult to argue with that. However, that does not tell us anything about the quality and character of the person being modeled. Role models can be good or bad depending on how they influence or affect us. Because such influences can have lasting consequences, it is extremely important that we choose our role models carefully.

In his first letter to the Corinthians, Paul writes, "Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ" (1 Cor. 11:1, KJV). Other translations put it differently. For example: "You must follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ" (CEV) and "Be imitators of me, as I also am of Christ" (HCSB). I do not believe Paul's intent was for the believers to shift their focus from following Jesus to following him. After all, Jesus is the perfect example and the best role model one could ask for. However, what we see is that as Paul gave instructions to the church on a number of issues, he concludes what we know as the previous chapter with the words, "Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God. Give none offence, neither to the Jews, nor to the Gentiles, nor to the church of God : Even as I please all men in all things, not seeking mine own profit, but the profit of many, that they may be saved" (10:31-33). It is on that note that he proceeded to say, "Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ." In other words, emulate me; imitate me; learn from me as I emulate/imitate Christ. This emulation was a form of discipleship that allowed for the spiritual growth of the believers, as well as it placed them in a position of holding Paul accountable for walking in "the Way of Christ" so he would not be a stumbling block to them.

It is important to note that this was not a call to blind allegiance; they were to follow the Apostle only to the extent that he was following Christ. The principle here is that good role models are not interested in amassing followers at any cost. They realize the burden of their responsibility and the importance of influencing the lives of others in positive ways. As we go about our daily lives, who are we role models to? What kind of a role model are you? Are you leaving a positive and lasting legacy or are you influencing the lives of others in ways that are questionable?

"Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ." As you resolve to follow in the steps of Christ, ask God to help you to let that be your appeal to someone in your sphere of influence. Become a role model and model Jesus. Someone is looking for one to follow.